Thursday, July 29, 2010

Wedding Update

For those of you who read both the blog and the wedding planning journal on the Disney Boards, I am sorry for the double post. I took some things from the journal and am posting them here to save some time.
Except there are a few things I am going to post on here that I would not want people on that board to read :)

As you know, we went to Florida from July 14th-18th for our planning session.Here is what I wrote on our first day of the trip:

We are here! Planning session time in the stickiest place on earth, I mean, Happiest Place on Earth. I was on the plane yesterday talking to the lady next to me, as I usually do (I talk to everyone) and she asked me why we were going to Florida. I told her for our planning session. She got me all excited and I was officially in wedding mode again. I even bought two bridal magazines....which turned out to be a waste because it was mostly about finding the right dress, forming the guest list, reception locations, etc all of which I have already. Oh well, $12.42 down the drain but it killed some time.

We were on Frontier Airlines and I had planned on sleeping but we were in front of the exit row where the seats don't recline, but of course the people in front of us reclined. It was so tight. I bought the TV service and wound up getting sucked into Cold Case which was fabulous but then I started watching 16 and Pregnant. Um, I wound up sobbing on the plane as the teen gal gave up her baby. I have issues. We got to the airport, and headed to the Magical Express, "an air conditioned motor coach" as they put it. The person guiding us to the AC Motor Coach was from Kiowa-a small town right near where we live. We had to get a picture!


We were thankful for the AC. It was pouring, but soon it was over. We checked in to Saratoga and thought we would just hang out but I said heck, we are here, lets redeem our annual passes (although I really wanted to wait until December) but it would have killed me not to go to the parks. Here are our passes. We thought we would get some hardcore plastic passes with our picture on them. Nope, just paper lame ass tickets. Bryan does not like Pluto so he was not happy. I am ok with Minnie.

At the counter I asked if they had buttons for us, because I am an attention whore and love the buttons. He said, "Did you just get engaged?" Um, 6 months ago but close enough, so he gave us those. So many people congratulated us. I told Bryan I would be rockin' the button the whole trip and he said he knows I would. We already have the Just Married pins in prep of the wedding. The day after the wedding I told Bryan he should wear a birthday button (since it is his birthday) and a Just Married pin. I said I would wear my Just Married pin and a "I'm Celebrating" pin. I am all about the flair.

My good friend still works at the Studios so we went to meet him which was so great. I adore him and I was so happy Bryan got to meet him. It was his first time seeing my ring, and he said Geez! You can't even see where the Titanic hit it. It was sweet. So many people have commented on my ring down here which is weird to me, but it is very sweet. Bryan has even got a few high fives and "Good Job Man!" Here is Jason and me:

After seeing my friend, we went to check out the rides. Um, 80 minute waits, I don't think so. I know this is vacation time for people since school is out, but WHY do people come to the parks when it is SO crowded and SO hot? No thanks. I would rather take the kids out of school, walk right up to the rides and be done. I am not a crowd person and I am not willing to wait 80 minutes for a short ride.

After walking around we went to Sci Fi dinner theater. Bryan did not think he would dig it, I told him the atmosphere was so cool and he is obsessed with cars, so he would like it. I did not think we could get in by walking up but sure enough, it was a 20 minute wait. I think the buttons helped :) Bryan thought it was amazing and I just love it there. We weren't scared although we look it here.
It is also amazing that the night we went to dinner there was extra magic hours for resort gifts. We thought it would help with the lines but nope, they went down to 60 minutes. Tonight we will be at Epcot and sure enough, the extra magic hours are tonight. Saturday we will have dinner at the castle, and guess what? Extra magical hours. Wahoo! Perfect timing! Now if only someone can turn down the humidity. Seriously. I suck in this weather. I can't wait to wear my undergarment that sucks me in in this weather. Eek! I hope our pics are fabu! I have no idea what I am going to do with my hair and makeup so we shall see. I hope it does not melt off. I feel for those that had to get married in the summer. I could not have done it.

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I can't believe it came and went already. The wedding is fast approaching. I am trying not to think about it because I know I will be sad when it is over, but time sure is flying!

Thursday: E-pics day. Ana came over at 3 and did my hair and makeup. Loved her and how I looked although my sister said I have "hooker eyes." I think it is far too dark for the wedding, but it was fine for engagement pictures:

It downpoured the entire time we were getting ready. I was hoping it would cool it off since it was so hot. It rained and rained, and our photographer Jenn called and asked if we should do it another time. We said we would have lots of umbrella pics if needed. I was not going to try and reschedule this. We met her at 6 and it was drizzling at Epcot. I had no idea what to expect with her. She was very sweet but she was far more artistic than what we are used to. So many pictures will be of us kissing and staring off the distance. We tried so hard not to laugh. We kept thinking WHAT are we looking at? I had to ask her for pictures of us with the Epcot ball in the background and she said most clients do not want that. Well, we do. I also had to ask if we could do some smiling ones. On our way to the Boardwalk, it downpoured again. She was a little upset that we had an outfit change and that the clothes we were going to change into were with the bellhop in a suitcase. We raced to get changed, and we took some pics in the candy shop, and a ton of us standing on a bench which I do not understand at all. We can't wait to see what the pics look like! We went with one photographer for the e-pics and the Roots for the wedding. I wanted to spice it up a bit! After that we went to House of Blues at Downtown Disney. Of all the days, it was the coolest so I am SO grateful. I would have died otherwise.

Friday: Planning session. We get to the Boardwalk since Francks was closed. Sadness. I do love the Boardwalk though. It reminds me of the shore.

In the midst of eating my bagel, our planner Maxine tells me not to eat too much because of the food tasting. I said the food tasting was not until 2:30. I pull out my binder, which she tells me is the biggest binder ever and that I killed so many trees because of it . I am a visual person so I had to have it all together. Looking back, I did not need it at all. I show her the planning session tab and the email I got (since she said "Don't you ever read anything I send you?") which said, tasting at 2:30. She said it was incorrect-it would have been that way if we had to travel from Franck's to the Boardwalk but since we were at the Boardwalk it would be earlier.  So since so much was already done over the phone, we just went through some things. I did not realize the Grand Floridian has table covers and centerpieces they include if you just ask, so I nixed the gel candles and saved $500 bucks. We got rid of chicken from the BBQ and saved $4 a person, and then we added in the Wishes soundtrack which I think we are going to nix, even though I was CERTAIN I was going to have it. After watching it without it from the GF area one night, we thought, do we really need to spend $500? Bryan’s call as his dad is paying for it. We got rid of the memorial candles, memorial floral arrangement, etc. Bryan wanted it originally in honor of his mom but then we realized we would be sad. We added more things on the tables so they aren’t so blah, I added the confetti cannons which I am sure I will have to get rid of. I was sure I wanted flowers down the aisle but then I decided against it after I saw the price. Carpet will be fine. We got rid of the limos and town cars so everyone can ride together in a Hummer. Not my style but Bryan liked it. Trying to think of what else… We had our food tasting, really cut back on the cocktail hour and just went with fruit. We tried so much food it was insane, then the cake, etc...Here we are with our chefs William and Wayne, and our server Shelly. All amazing, fabulous people:


After the tasting, Rose came in to work with us since my floral guy Warren was sick. I was SO bummed and I really wanted to meet him. Rose was awesome, we went over everything, she was just fabu. Her binder was as big as mine.



It went by so quick and nothing monumental happened. I was just sad that it was in a random room. I thought about switching to another hotel but I loved Wayne, the chef we had, and love the feel of the Boardwalk. I spent many times at the shore in New Jersey so it reminds me of being a kid.

Since our planning session ended way earlier than we thought, we went to a DVC meeting since we were sure we were going to do it. There was just a price increase and since so many people we know have it, we did not need a big presentation. Our lady was dumb and annoying -it takes a lot for me to say that. We priced it out and decided not to do it right now. We will see. We did get 3 Fastpasses each for going which was good since the ride waits were 100 minutes plus. Friday night we went to dinner with my friend, then went over to the Magic Kingdom since they had extra hours. Why on earth were parents bringing their kids in to the park at 1:45 am? Oh, and they were wondering why they were crying and cranky.

Saturday morning we went to AK with our fast passes to ride Everest and the Safari which had a huge wait when we got there but when we went to FP it, there was no wait which was weird. It was SO hot that day. After that, we went back to the hotel, showered and headed to see the Wedding Pavilion. Well, our monorail driver got shocked, so they shut down all the monorails and took ours off the track. Bryan said hey, that guys sweat stain is a hidden mickey....it kind of did look like one....

There was no time to see the WP since we had reservations at the castle. I was so bummed. We went to the castle and everyone told me it had changed so much. It was more princess like, and more for kids as you know. I was worried but oh my, I had the best time ever. We had a table by the window. We wore just engaged pins (although it had been a few months) and our waitress was from my old stompin grounds in Jersey. Loved her! She saw our pins, sprinkled our table with confetti, gave Bryan a sword, and I got a wand. It was fabulous! I love that stuff. Bryan asked Cinderella if she got tired of her job and in all seriousness she said, “Oh no, I just love making new friends!”

Snow White asked if we lived in a castle with clouds and if so, were we neighbors? Aurora asked if I met my Prince Charming, I said I guess which did not go over too well with B. Belle was the best. She saw my ring, said to Bryan, “Oh my. You must talk to Beast about ring shopping. You have good taste.” Very cute. I thought B would not dig the castle but we both love it. I loved the wand, and Bryan got a sword:

We tried making reservations for the wedding but it is totally sold out. I am thinking it might be busy during the wedding now. Ugh. Normally it is not but with the Mickeys Christmas Party I am thinking it might. We called for reservations ALL over-nothing available all week. I am so stressed.

After dinner, we decided to head back to the hotel after some shopping at the Emporium. I had to get pics with ears of course:
I wanted to stay for fireworks but the park closed right after them and that is just insane. As we were leaving, the lights of the WP were on. We thought lets go try it. We get there at 8:56 and they shut the lights off and were locking the doors. We run and B talks to the people and they unlock everything and let us in! They turned on all the lights too. SO sweet. We should have tipped them. Here they are waving at the back of the room along with some other bad pics of where we are getting married:


I had seen it before in 1999 when I worked there but it was different to me now knowing I was getting married there. Bryan loved it so that was great! We headed back to the GF and watched the fireworks from there.

Sunday we went to Downtown Disney and bought way too much stuff. Bryan got me the Disney Dooney and Burke purse I have wanted. I love it! Its is different than this, but close! I made sure Minnie was not cut off on mine!

We got a lot of pins, more display boxes for them, etc.  My suitcase weighed 49lbs. We had a reservation at the TRex place so we went to Fultons for lunch instead. After that, it was off to the Magical Express and to the airport. I was so sad to see it end but it was nice to get back to no humidity!

Sunday, July 25, 2010

One Year Ago

Wow, I really stink at this blogging thing lately. I need to get back into it!

This time last year I was getting ready to go on a "meeting" with Bryan. We had talked for months via email but had not met. I was done with dating and just wanted to meet a new friend. I had no idea it was a date or that he would turn out to be my future husband. It is crazy to think that one year ago he was about to pick me up, show up at my door with a rose, and ask me in the car if I liked pizza. I should have seen it as a sign after that question! We went to a place downtown, talked a lot, we came back to his house to see pictures of a trip he took to Disney and then he brought me home. He was so nice, so polite, and adorable. I thought we would just be good friends. Well, that night was the beginning of a great relationship.

Just 3 days short of dating 6 months, he asked me to marry him. I asked him if he wanted anything for our anniversary and he said no, he did not even want a card. Normally I do not listen, but I did this time, and only got him a card. He said he was taking me out to dinner on Friday and that was all I expected.

This morning we got up, and I walked downstairs to see what I thought was a sign:

It was wrapped in black and white polka dot ribbon (which is going to be incorporated into everything at our wedding.  Little did I know there was a whole bunch of pages with a poem he wrote. It was adorable and made me cry. I thought it was amazing, and then I got to a sign that said Open Box 1. What? A box? At this point he pulled out a box:
I know this box. It is a box from the jeweler. I was confused but I opened it and inside was a beautiful diamond band. He told me to keep reading, and a few pages later I saw this:
My picture taking ability was not good at this point as I was still confused. It was another box from the jeweler and inside was ANOTHER diamond band. In his book he made me, it said he wanted me to have a wedding band for the wedding day (since all three of my engagement bands are already sealed together). I cried and was still in awe. I have never been spoiled like this and it was so sweet. I would have been amazed at just the book he made, what he wrote and the pics that were in it, but he went above and beyond. I felt lame only having a card for him. Here is what all of it looked like:

I would love to post every page of what he wrote but I do not want to embarass him. Here is a bad picture of both of the rings:
The right one is my one year dating anniversary ring. I love it! 

Yesterday I went to have my ring cleaned and as I waited I looked at rings. The lady who helped us with my engagement ring was there and she knew I had a certain ring that I loved. I look at it every time I get my ring cleaned and it was not there last time I went. They actually had it this time. When I came home, I told Bryan they had the ring I wanted (We had talked about getting me a band for the wedding). He just said Oh really and that was that. Little did I know he had went to the jewelry store in search of the ring and he did not find it. When I opened my rings he told me he would not be offended if I exchanged one of the rings for the other one. Problem is I loved both of them, and he gave them to me on this day so I said no.

We took the boys to see Despicable Me today. Everyone in line for popcorn had a coupon. I got online and saw it was $1.00 for any size drink or popcorn but you had to have the coupon. I did not want to spend $8 on popcorn so I told the cashier my printer was not working (it isn't so it isn't a total lie) and asked if I could get the coupon price. He said sure! I feel guilty but we saved money. The movie was adorable and I was pleasantly surprised as I thought we were seeing the Megamind one-I had them confused. We all really liked it and there were some funny parts. Here we are before the movie. So odd to think at this time last year I had not met the boys and now they are such a huge part of my life:



On the way home, Bryan took the long way home hoping the boys would sleep. No such luck. Bryan got off the highway and went to the jewelry store again. He wanted to see the ring. The lady that helped him pick out the rings I got today was there and she said she was going to call him and let him know the ring was there. We looked at it, and I thought we would leave but he got it for me. I have never had this much jewelry in my life! I don't know how I am going to wear it all. I am only going to wear my engagement ring and the dating anniversary ring until the wedding. I love them all so much!

Tonight we went to dinner with Nana and Papa. Torrin cried the entire time and refused to eat his dinner, but other than that, it was nice!

I can't believe how fast a year has gone by and how much my life has changed. I am a lucky lady!

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