Saturday, November 14, 2009

The Day Finally Arrived!


What seems like a year ago, a group of my friends and I decided to go see Wicked in Denver. November 14th seemed SO far away but today was the day. Amazing how time flies!  I felt frazzled as I headed to the theater. I realized I forgot mascara (oh the horror!) which turned out to be a good thing because after the show it was snowing and it would have been all over my face. When I got downtown there was a line for miles to get into the Denver Center for the Performing Arts parking structure. I don't think so. I was afraid I was not going to make it in time so I turned down another street and parked in some random lot. I get to the theater, take my seat and go to read my program as I wait for my friends. I realize I have no glasses. I hope they are on my counter or in my car as I have a tendency to lose them. A lot.

We had the first row of the balcony. There was a man down the row from us who kept getting up before the show and as the show started. There is NOT a lot of room for other attendees to pass in front of you. This made me nervous because we were the front row in that section, high above the orchestra, with nothing in front of us. I was worried I was going to fall. That would not be good. Plus, it isn't like there is a huge protective railing in front of you. They want you to see the show, so it is low. So low, you could easily fall over. Well, at least me, the tall girl could. Which brings me to something else. Theater venues are not meant for tall people with long legs....especially the tall people with long legs who chose to wear high heels. I could not cross my legs without doing an uncomfortable and totally unflattering series of movements. Eventually I gave up and sat there, legs uncrossed. It felt weird. The man down the row walked by again. The angry man behind us told us to sit down. Um, we are trying to let someone by. The angry man later turned out to be talkative man who had a girlfriend who chose to sing along to select songs. Good times.

One of the first songs is "The Wizard and I." The teacher in me decided to listen to this song, and then began to obsess about whether or not this was the correct use of grammar. I thought, hmmm, should it be the Wizard and me? The Wizard and I? This took up a good time until I realized I was no longer paying attention to the show.

In case you have not noticed, my mind tends to wander. I have seen Wicked before so I think it wandered a tad bit more than usual. I thought about when I saw the show last, the other shows I had seen on Broadway when I lived in New Jersey, then I began to really miss being able to hop on a train and be in the city 30 minutes later to see a show at any time. I thought about the TKTS booths and the half price tickets. About how we got cheap seats to Grease and although we were in row 5 we were WAY off to the side. I thought about how the guy from American Idol was the Teen Angel when I saw it, which then lead my mind to think about how excited I was for the new season of American Idol to start in January. Seriously, it must be exhausting to be my brain.

At intermission I wanted to get some pictures with my friends. I got a picture with Tracy, and then I moved over to Christy. As Crystal took a picture of us, a mean, angry lady came down to me and scolded me for taking pictures. She said everything was copywrited so you can't take pictures. Um, I am taking pictures of my friends, NOT the actors or stage. We were by our seats during intermission. Really?  This put me in a bad mood since I let the little things get to me. Plus I am a total rule follower and felt guilty.

After the show was over we headed to dinner at the Cheesecake Factory. We took the 16th Street Mall shuttle and let's just say, there are some interesting people on there. Not as interesting as the subways in New York, but interesting people. There were two guys behind Amy and I that were obviously in a slightly altered state. One of the guys said to the other guys, "Dude, I am so glad you are more intoxicated than me. Or high. Whatever." We were glad to make it to the restaurant. The wait was 45 minutes so we hung out in the bar area. Eventually we decided to just eat in the bar area to save some time. Crystal and I both ordered the APPETIZER Caesar salad. I wanted the side salad but you could not get it unless you ordered a sandwich. Well, let's just say, I think the entire table and some other guests could have eaten this one salad. It was huge! I felt like I ate and ate but I never saw the bottom of the bowl. When I finally gave it back to the waitress it was as if I did not eat any of it. *Note to self: You do not like the Caesar salad at the Cheesecake Factory.

At dinner, I learned that the reason the man at the show kept getting up was because he was afraid of heights and was feeling panic. I too am afraid of heights and did not enjoy standing up in that row. I felt bad for him, but was impressed he made it through the show. I would have asked to be moved to another seat (if I was feeling particularly bold that day). Here are some pictures from today. As I get older I have realized I look MUCH better in black in white. I am noticing how I am aging and this makes me incredibly grateful for photo editing software.


After dinner the snow had started (YAY!) and Amy and I were parked by the theater. Her husband Travis is a police officer in Denver, so one of his fellow officers came to pick us up to take us to our cars. You know what that means? Yes, I got to ride in the back of a police car! Being the rule follower I am, I highly doubt I will ever be in the back of a police car again, so this was pretty exciting for me. Here was our ride:



He even held the door open for me. I doubt criminals (alleged criminals) get that kind of treatment! He warned me that there was not a lot of room in the back and he was not kidding. Being in the back of that car made the leg room at the Buell Theater look like first class. There was NO room for my legs. It was so tight and uncomfortable. While back there I checked it out. There are bars on the windows. I could barely hear the conversation going on up front because of the glass in between us, even though it was 50% open. I did think it was pretty cool that he drove down the 16th Street Mall because regular cars can't do that. I thought about asking him to turn on the sirens, but then realized that might be a bit much. I was just grateful for the ride on this slushy night.

I made my way home bummed it was not snowing harder. I love, love, love the snow. As I made it further south on I-25 it became more snowy. Wahoo!  When I got home I took this picture of the tree outside my bedroom:



It has just started and it makes me happy. The only negative thing about it is tomorrow is the Diak/Holder Family Thanksgiving. Bryan and I will be in California for the actual holiday so we wanted to do something with all my family beforehand. I have been looking forward to this for weeks now. We were supposed to have it next weekend but my brother in law got tickets to the Broncos game so we rescheduled (understandably so! If I had to chose between turkey or a football game, I would so be at the game). Tomorrow was also supposed to be the THIRD attempt at the family Christmas photo. The first time there was a prediction of snow so my parents canceled it so my sister would not have to drive down from Ft. Collins. Turned out that there really was not a lot of snow and we could have done it that day. My sister agreed not to come down but said if there is a blizzard the next time we tried, she would come down no matter what. Well, the second time we scheduled it, Tyler got the stomach flu so it was a no go. Now it is snowing again, and I am thinking tomorrow will not happen. Plus Bryan's son Camden has a fever. Ugh. That 15lb turkey might just have to hang out in my parent's fridge another week or so. We can get together next
weekend for dinner but my brother in law will not be there because of the game, so no picture. My mom said we could just pick a picture of each family from this year and put it together. Great idea if I had a family. What would I do? Give them a picture of just me? That would be a little weird. Perhaps I could pose next to a tree, like in my senior pictures, minus the bad perm. I hope the event takes place tomorrow but I don't think it will. I love when my family gets together. I love seeing my sister and her family, as well as all my nephews and niece. I love seeing them play together and I love seeing Bryan's boys bonding with members of my family. They loved Quinn and Ethan last time we got together. Bryan's other son Torrin also bonded with his fellow 2 year old (and my niece) Mikaya. They start so young these days, don't they?


Fingers crossed that it will happen tomorrow! If so, I will post some of the pictures (after some editing of course!)

Enjoy your weekend!

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Thank You!

Just a quick post to say thank you to those of you who have been sending me positive, sweet and kind feedback regarding this blog. It just started and I love that you find it funny and entertaining. It means a lot to me when people tell me I am a good writer and storyteller. You all are the best, so thank you again!

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Random Thoughts

As many of you know, I am extremely random. I say what I think and assume people traveled along the thought process that took place in my brain. Sadly, 99% of the time, this is not the case. This blog will be random. Very rarely will there be themes. Bear with me. It is how I roll :)

A few things that are on my mind right now:
  • I went out to dinner tonight and when I came home all I could think about was having a pudding cup. I get on certain food kicks and lately it is JelloVanilla Pudding, also known as deliciousness in a tiny cup. I get home and go to the fridge eagerly anticipating the deliciousness that awaits. Then....it happened. I open the door and I do not see any pudding. I move the milk actually thinking it is hiding from me. I wonder if I put it on the door. Nope. No pudding. Sadness ensues and my stomach and taste buds are highly disappointed.
  • While I was walking on the Cherry Creek Trail today, I walk past a man who is speed walking while smoking a cigar. Interesting.
  • My friend Ethan and I had a waitress tonight whose name was Jessie. She wore the shortest jean shorts I ever saw, and a tube top with BIG neon pink earrings. Her belly button was pierced and she had on black and white knee highs like these:
Granted, she did not have the spaces for toes, although I don't know for sure as she was wearing shoes. The thought of actually wearing the pair shown makes me cringe as I HATE things between my toes. Having to wear those would be torture (and a major fashion don't in my book!)

Back to the point: Jessie had the voice of a "Valley Girl" and although I am not one to judge, she was incredibly ditzy.  Not sure why I had to share that info with you, but I did.
  • I have the best boyfriend ever. I really do. I am super lucky. 
  • I am not a fan of Tuesday night TV. Nothing is on. I did come across the show Hoarders on A&E last night and thought oh no, this is another one to put on the already filled DVR (Hello, my name is Dani and I am a TVaholic. There, I said it.) Hoarders makes me feel SO much better about my small piles of mail and scrapbook stuff. If you don't know what it is, here is the link: http://www.aetv.com/hoarders/ I was mesmerized by the people on this show. I felt anxiety watching them. I wanted to go into their houses and tell them they REALLY did not need that piece of broken tile or the green tutu. Then again, it is hard to give up things of your own that have meaning to you. It is far easier to throw away other people's things. When I need to purge I call my sister. I am thinking she needs to come down again sometime soon ;o)
    • I would like to say a big Hello to my friend Suzy's boyfriend Joe. I am truly sorry that I took the other blog down, but now you have this one to read so you get a sense of who I am. You should do this, because I already know everything about you (don't get mad). Go Eagles! ;o)
    • Before you share your blog link with the world, make sure you delete the other blogs attached to your email address. Once upon a time I had a dating blog and I really did not remember what I had wrote on that site. Then people started telling me they found the dating blog. This sent me into a panic. What had I written? When I got home I went to the old blog and had to laugh. Some of the stories I had completely forgotten. I absolutely cringe over the post of how I was sad because I thought my previous ex was "the One." Um, he cheated on me, lied to me, cheated on his ex wife, had a father who had many affairs one of which produced a child, said mean things to me and we broke up several times. PLUS he played the piano endlessly which drove my sister and brother a tad bit batty (at least that is the impression I got). The color guard was doing a full blown routine with their red flags but I had been on SO many bad dates that the first somewhat nice and fun guy that came along looked like Prince Charming when in reality he was a big old toad. Sure, I was sad for about a week but I look back and think WHY did I waste tears on that guy? He was wrong for me in so many ways, and now that I am with someone amazing who I love and adore (as well as his kiddos), I realize just how foolish I was. On the positive side, I am glad for every horrible date I went on and for meeting all the wrong people. It made it a whole lot easier to realize when the right one came along. 
    • As I was driving through my neighborhood tonight, I saw a house totally decked out for Christmas already. Then I drove through town and some of the strip malls have their Christmas lights on. It seems to me that it gets earlier and earlier every year. Granted, I LOVE this time of year and I LOVE the holidays but it does not feel like November to me at all.
    • Speaking of lights-I know Christmas is to celebrate the birth of Christ and I hope I do not offend anyone by saying this, but I think it would be kind of cool to have people put up lights a month and a half before my birthday. There really is nothing to celebrate between August and September so why not? Instead of pictures of Santa there could be pictures of me in the stores. Signs and calendars alerting you to how many shopping days are left until Dani's birthday. Somehow I do not think this will catch on but I can dream can't I? 
    I have a million other things I could write, but House Hunters in on, and well, my couch is calling.

    Goodnight!

    Sunday, November 8, 2009

    15 Years and Counting

    Once upon a time in a land called Ft. Collins, Colorado, I attended Colorado State University. As a freshman 15 years ago, I signed up for one of my PE credits: Bowling. Yes people. Bowling. I love bowling. LOVE it! I hate running and other possible PE credits so taking bowling was the best choice for me. Some people may see that as a cop out. I saw it as fabulous. If I remember correctly, being a freshman I had the mindset that since I started high school at 7:35 I would easily be able to make an 8 o'clock class that I just had to walk to. Bad idea. College is a whole new ballgame. An 8 o'clock class is never a good idea.  I believe I was in the 8 a.m. class. I knew no one, and felt somewhat uncomfortable. Although I am overly outgoing, something about getting up in front of strangers, bending over and throwing a ball for all to see was not comfortable for me. I have always been insecure about my body, and bowling really does not do wonders for the body image. Looking back, I was about 100 lbs then and self conscious about my bottom? Really? I should have been more worried about the flannel shirts I was wearing (give me credit: everyone else wore them too. Not sure what we were thinking, or how I got dates wearing them.)

    In my bowling class I met Kathy. I think we were put on the same team and we instantly became friends. We laughed a ton, shared everything and formed a great friendship. 15 years later we are still friends. We are the kind of friends that can go months or even years without seeing each other or talking, yet we can always pick up where we left off. It is a great thing to have a friend like that.

    We have a tendency to go to movies that are either completely empty or where it is empty until someone comes in and sits right in front of us despite the fact that there are tons of rows and seats available NOT in front of us. We also tend to see horrible movies together (not intentionally). We find laughter in the smallest things. I remember seeing Shrek with her and laughing so hard I cried.

    In 1999, I moved to Florida to work at Disney World. Kathy was kind enough to drive with me to Florida. So many adventures and stories from that trip. Maybe someday they will come out. So much laughter my stomach hurt. I love those moments.

    We played in the parks and I am not sure where these were taken but they still make me laugh to this day. I remember we went to Target in Orlando and had them developed (back in the stone age of film cameras). We opened them at the snack bar and laughed so hard at these pictures.



    Serious astronauts. Love it!

    Kathy got married 3.5 years ago to Jason. When I hear about someone but never meet them I refer to them as Snuffaluffagus because on Sesame Street people claimed Snuffy existed but no one saw him in person. I have called Jason Snuffaluffagus and really wanted to meet him. That day finally came last night when Bryan, Kathy, Snuffy and I met for dinner at Houston's. *Sidenote: I love Houston's and I am ridiculously happy one has come to Colorado and is not somewhere like Grand Junction.*

    When Kathy walked in, I spotted her and Snuffy. He exists! So now, he is Jason. We had a great dinner, good talks and then off we went to the Bonnie Brae Ice Cream place. While there, I noticed the somewhat creepy looking bear. Being me, we had to get pictures.

    I love how the bear is "looking" forward in the first picture, but soon things change...In the second picture, it looks as if he is totally checking out Kathy and I am clinching my teeth as if to say "This creepy bear is checking out my married friend." Please note, this bear does not move. That is why I think the difference between these two pictures is quite funny. 



    Despite the creepy bear, it was a good night. It is fun to have other couple friends who share similar interests. It is also great to have a friendship of 15+ years. Love you Kath!








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